16/04: GenkiJACS' first {goukon{
Category: Japanese customs for foreigners
Posted by: evankirby

Today's topic is the {goukon{ (or gokon, or gookon), a modern-traditional Japanese dating party. {Goukon{ is short for {Gouryuu Konpa{. Gouryuu means to come together, or merge. Konpa is Japanese-English ({wasei eigo{) for Companion Party.
Basically, a goukon is a slightly formalized way for young people to meet possible partners outside of their standard circle of friends. Usually, there are two {hosts{, one female and one male. Each one invites a number of friends of the same sex as them. Generally, only the two hosts know each other in advance - everybody else is meeting for the first time.
Dinner and drinks is the standard recipe, but of course that's not all. When younger people (e.g., university students) meet, there are a variety of games to keep the conversation flowing, such as the {Oosama Game{ (King game), where everybody draws secret numbered straws, then Oosama calls out two numbers and a dare... For slightly more mature participants, conversation itself, and the delicate play of getting to know the other people there, are enough. The goal, of course, is to get a phone number...
Why this topic? Well, GenkiJACS was proud to host our first Goukon a few weeks ago, with 4 foreign female students meeting 4 Japanese male doctors. We don't know how many phone numbers were exchanged, but everyone seemed to have a good time, with dinner and drinks followed by karaoke till the early hours. More photos to come!
